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The longer we hold onto our false thoughts, the easier it is to believe the crap we tell ourselves. The lies take root and soon we find ourselves falling down a dark slippery slope.

You may relate to some of these statements:

• You long for happiness but feel overcome with feelings of worry, guilt, and doubt
• You feel burned out yet a restlessness runs through you; you crave adventure and excitement
• You spend all of your time giving to other people, placing your needs in last place
• Your grateful for your life and hate to admit that you’re feeling empty and unfulfilled
• Being vulnerable is weak so you are ashamed to admit feelings of sadness and grief
• Strong women don’t ask for help yet you wonder why everything is so damn hard

I believe that after we work together, you will relate to a different set of statements:

• You realize how your own thoughts are powerful and contributed to your unhappiness
• You feel confident and courageous for the first time in years
• Your embrace the benefits of setting boundaries with your time
• You believe that self-care is not selfish and is critical to your well-being
• You feel like you’ve come home to yourself
• You discover and celebrate a network of supportive like-minded women through My Girlfriend Voice
• You are unapologetically, authentically and uniquely YOU in every aspect of your life!

Earlier I mentioned that I have many critical voices that compete for stage time between my ears, so let me introduce you to a few of my headliners.  By the way, you may have other characters to add to the cast – I’d be really interested in hearing your thoughts.

Miss Perfectionist:

Do it right or don’t do it at all.  There is no room for error or failure.

 

Miss Cheerleader:

I hate it when you’re sad.  Let’s eat candy and go shopping.  It will make you feel better.

 

Miss Comparison:

Let’s talk about how you don’t measure up to anyone or anything else.

 

Miss Doomsday:

Dead, broke, homeless……one step away from total disaster.

 

Miss Expert:

You are not qualified.  You are not an expert.  Who do you think you are?

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And now for the grand introduction……  This is how I visualize My Girlfriend Voice!  She’s hip, she’s patient and she loves me to pieces; even if I wear white shoes after Labor Day!  Having a visual image of her helps me tune into her loving, supportive wise voice.

 Here’s the good news!